I replied asking why i had to pay for $200.00 for him to come gone and was told that because he was scheduled for deployment that I had to pay the money for the reversal of his deployment. So thank you for this article as a small price of mind that I’m not alone, You are so welcome. And I am so grateful to have found you at a time when I considered marrying before his deployment. Most banks and companies and the military are only trying to protect service members because they’ve seen some seriously high drama situations go down. I never have a contact for his family he was asking before though if I wanted to meet his mom without him I told him no but I asked for her contact maybe he didn’t get to read that part of message I’m very weak right now freaking out. I later learned that my boyfriend had lost a dear friend and team member in an explosion that day. 1. I say goodbye to you even though my soul hurts … I say goodbye to you with all my pain…. I have a boyfriend in the army he is very loving, caring, jovial, intelligent, humble, trustworthy, God fearing amongst others. Looking for answers. I believe they support significant others. My boyfriend and I have a beautiful relationship. It has been a pleasure to also read the comments from “girlfriends” and i hope you have all ranked up and become “wives”. BigMatrimonial is a blog about Free relationship advice, Love letters, Love quotes, Marriages, Couples. Ms Jane Lynch. In this farewell I wish you all the happiness in the world and find the love and happiness you seek and deserve. I just started a relationship with my sailor and i didnt have any idea on how to handle this long distance relp nor his schedule. Escape 4. I’m grateful because you gave me memories to remember when I’m alone and sad. What hurts the most is not so much the farewell, but knowing that we could do a lot of things better, avoid so much trouble … and who knows if we will still consider some hope at this moment. I miss that time when we wanted to discover together what we could achieve in the future, in which we began to have intense feelings for each other and it seemed that there was nothing that could end what we were living. I absolutely love this article. I know this is an old post, people may not read this. Yes!! It’s so hard not to feel pressured to get married right now. ‘As you are aware that our affair has been publicised so much that my family mem­bers have got inkling and consequently they are look­ing for a suitable groom. This post though…this is what I needed to hear today <3. I go to boot camp this summer, and if you pray for me I’d surely be obliged, But please pray for Am, as shes the one who worries the most probably. I promise it is worth the wait, Jordyn! My fiance and I discussed a rushed marriage before he deploys here in the near future, but we decided against it. I appreciate you taking the time to put this out there…especially when so many of us feel this way. My boyfriend is due to deploy in the near future as he has started his work ups. You can also reach him on WhatsApp: +2348145643630, My husband left me for another woman 3 months ago and ever since then my life have been filled with pains sorrow and heart break because he was my first love whom i have spent my entire life with. I am new to being close to the military. I wish you could see everything from my point of view and maybe that way, it would be easier for you to forgive me. That time served great purpose to build and nurture the foundation of your future marriage. I do not intend to soften you with this letter, because I know that, by leaving, I have caused too much sadness so that you do not strive to hide it in a cold attitude. He may think he knows how the system works but he signed a contract with the military and 200.00 will not buy his way out. I know we’re gonna be together for as long as we can be. and i reached out to people who can help, i hit on the real thing, and that is Dr Muna. Hi, I’m Seleena. And now, you’re taking the fall for every crap girlfriend out there. I didn’t know how much I needed it until now. Sgt West said the Army would be a solid partner like having a new family to look out for us. The saddest thing is that we have never met, never video called even before he joined the navy at first I questioned about it because he is always busy even before he entered the navy. Don’t want to get married just for the status and benefits but it is very tempting. We havent done any skype yet (he said it was because of the mission) but he texts regularly. Which was absolutely not my game plan or something I would ever interfere with. Writing a letter allows you not to miss anything when you tell your friend goodbye. Variety is key! It sets a bad face on us, I cant do anything for your daughter, but let her know God has plans for her. The relationship between Blair and Chuck, refers to the partnership and relationship between Blair Waldorf and Chuck Bass.. Blair and Chuck grew up together on the Upper East Side, along with their respective best friends Serena Van Der Woodsen and Nate Archibald.Blair loses her virginity to Chuck in Victor Victrola, and they officially enter into a relationship in The Goodbye Gossip Girl. With Leave and Payments. I really needed to read this. You got this! I honestly don’t know what to say outside of you had something very special–love in your heart–and no one can take that away from you. he said that I was the most important person in his life and he knows that now. In the intern. Military life is an emotional roller coaster and it’s incredibly hard to cope with separations. I shared many moments with you, moments that will remain in my heart forever, even though I know what ours has come here. The movie was based on the novel of the same name written by Fred Gipson. It was really okay for me on that situation, I understand everything until when he leaves for boot camp, I kept on asking “WHY?” to him, it’s just full of “whys” but later on I realized that I shouldn’t seek for answers coming from him, Instead, I kept on looking for the answers to my “Whys” and as the day goes by, It was answered day by day.